If we are talking about emotional abuse that’s one thing – but physical abuse in relationships is male on female.

In a society which requires males to be violent, females ALSO require males to be violent. There’s a tragic relationship here between violence and love and between nonviolence and impotency. “To beat me means he cares” is an underlying belief of many women.

Most women enjoy when their men are violent outside of work (in terms of increasing the wealth drawn into the family). For many women then, the price they pay for an effectively violent man outside of work is some violence inside the home. This might be summed up by the phrase “the beatings come with the territory (of caring for my children)”.

More males than we suspect are very resentful over *having to* commit violence (violence usually is social or psychological instead of physical). This resentment fuels their beating of women, who they blame for their own degradation into violence (by logic of having to use violence to feed the family).

There is also a lot more violence committed by women than is typically presumed – again, social and psychological violence predominantly.

The reason Americans (even on the far political left) focus on physical violence is because the other forms of violence, which are far more prevalent and far more harmful, are utterly required to maintain an imperial state, while physical violence can be done away with. This is one aspect of the complicity of the left in imperial America.

Examine the typical woman who “gains the strength” to leave an abusive marriage. She’s unexpectedly *old*. The reason for the advanced age is not the wisdom or self-knowledge that comes with age, but the lack of children who need constant care. Once a woman no longer needs to sacrifice her own well being for the well being of her children she “gains the strength” to leave the abusive marriage.

The problem with America and much of the world is that violence *works*. This is a country founded and perpetuated through violence – without violence imperial America dies a very quick death. This is no secret to the men whose fists, or words, or insidious actions pound their women and the women who suffer it for the sake of their children and themselves.

Hierarchical capitalism is built on violence and cannot survive without it.

so much and so often, that i postulate, meaness/brutality may have gone genetic by now.

i also postulate which phenomena are most or even solely responsible for the change of our kind/gentle gene[s] into a brutal one [s].
shamanism/cults/clergy, our ‘rulers’/'teachers’, soldiery, greed, lust for power, competition, fears, supremacism, come to my brain as some of the causes for our meaness.
tnx

The abuse of males is found in a society that requires them to join militaries to make a living or to gain a sense of masculinity, to rule the home as if it were a personal fiefdom, to obtain satisfaction with killing animal for sport, or to feel inadequate if they have not made a killing on Wall Street or humiliated an employee.

In a good deal of the world, females are last in line for education, for food at mealtime, and despised if the bride price is not sufficient or not at all. Women have their sex organs sewn shut – to the point that sex is painful, urination is painful, and conception difficult. Women live shorter lives in some countries than men, and are doomed to lives a back-breaking labor because they are regarded as less than human. Infanticide is the province of the female infant.

John Lennon said ‘woman is nigger of the world.’ He may have not been the wisest man on Earth, but he was right about that.